happening to bump into last tuesday's bass player in the filling station i grovellingly sidled up and apologised for being crap. see below.
he was cool. pointed out a couple of strengths of my performance, which i hadn't recognised, and told me to keep turning up.
i felt much relieved. and encouraged.
as the spider says ....... 'a little sycophancy can take you a long way'.
went to a great funeral afterwards.
yeah, wasn't mine.
peace and love